Am I Responsible For My Spouse’s Bad Investments If We Divorce?

Calculating Family Finances


On the breakdown of a marriage (but not a common law relationship), spouses "equalize" their assets and liabilities and share, with some exceptions, the growth in their net worth during the marriage.  The video below explains “Equalization of Net Family Property in greater detail.


Many separating spouses can feel that the equalization process can be unfair - particularly where one spouse has spent money on stupid things, gambled it away, is getting a windfall due to the division of the matrimonial home, or it has been a very short marriage.  In these, and other situations, dividing up all property "50/50" can seem unfair. 

Section 5(6) of Ontario's Family Law Act does allow a Court (or Family Arbitrator) to deviate from the usual equalization of Net Family Property and divide the family's wealth another way.  It accommodates all of the scenarios above and a few others.  

However, the test that the Family Court (or arbitrator) has to use is not whether the normal "equalization" would be unfair. Section 5(6) says that to deviate from the normal equalization, the Court must be "of the opinion that equalizing the net family properties would be unconscionable."   "Unconscionable" is much more than just unfair.  The case law says that it means that the usual result must be "shocking to the conscious of the court."   That is much more than just unfair.  One spouse spending a lot of money on an affair is not enough.  A spouse spending too much is not enough.  Justice Jennings put it this way

The result must be more than hardship, more than unfair, more than inequitable. There are not too many words left in common parlance that can be used to describe a result more severe than unconscionable.

Ontario Family Law Podcast

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30 - Entitlement to Spousal Support

33 - The Law of Marriage Contracts & Cohabitation Agreements


Specifically on the issue of investment losses, the Courts have held that improvident (stupid) investing is not enough to justify an unequal division of net family properties.  The investment must have been made recklessly or in bad faith.  That means the spouse must have known, or should have known, that the investment would become worthless. Risky investing is not enough. The spouse must have acted deliberately to lose money or known that he or she was likely to lose money.

That can definitely seem unfair - especially when one spouse is a conservative investor and one spouse is a high risk investor, or where one spouse's savings have done really well and the other spouse's investments have done poorly. But, fairness is not the test. There are many ways that Family Law operates that people think are unfair, especially with regard to money.  This podcast explains some of the bigger ways to lose money in Family Law.  Regardless of how the law works, when spouses have different opinions on financial matters, that can cause stress in, or even cause  the end of, their marriage.

Where spouses have significant differences of opinion about money, they should consider getting a marriage contract.  Spouses can get a marriage contract at any point during the marriage.  They can keep a marriage together if one spouse wants to do something risky and the other one wants financial protection.  The video below explains how to protect yourself  and save your marriage with a marriage contract.




But, if spouses are already separated because of money issues, it is likely too late for a marriage contract. Once separation occurs, things crystallize so it is difficult to fix things. The best time to see a Family Lawyer about financial problems in a marriage is before separation. The video below explains some other common family law mistakes that a family lawyer may be able to fix. 



Still, even after separation it is worth speaking to an excellent Family Law Lawyer.  It may be possible to correct an unfair financial situation  through spousal support, as section 15.2(6)(a) of the Divorce Act allows a judge to address the economic consequences of the marriage and its breakdown through spousal support.  That can be through either awarding spousal support or reducing an amount of spousal support to reflect how the marriage affected the spouses financially.   


Guide to the Basics of Ontario Family Law (book)

You can get a lot more information about Ontario Family Law issues, including support and property division and most other common family law issues by downloading this $9.99 e-book for KindleKobo, or iPad/iPhone/Mac or ordering the paperback version.  But, to keep out of trouble, it is always best to speak with a top family law lawyer


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Obviously, there can be a lot of money involved in any marriage or relationship and that means there can be a lot at stake financially.   Get the help of a lawyer immediately to avoid financial hardship.  Contact Certified Specialist in Family Law (and author of the book above), John Schuman, by emailing him, calling 416-446-5869, or using the contact form below.  We answer all inquiries promptly and we can arrange for you to come in quickly for a consultation (charged at a reduced hourly rate).


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